How to tell your friend she dating a loser
My theory is that in the beginning, most women don’t know the guy is a deadbeat loser.
He probably is reasonably attractive and tells a good story about his current situation and his ambitions.
What is it about non-ideal situations which makes us keep carrying on, doing nothing to change?
If you hate your job, get laid with a nice severance check in hand!
She’s afraid other women will be all over him, which will seriously stress her out. It’s the friendship that we cherish more of, not the sexual activities, the older we get.
She’s also afraid as she grows older, he’ll stop wanting to be with her. Not wanting to be with the hottest and nicest woman possible is hard for men to understand.
Instead, we settle for what we have or just being a lone. The older women get, the smaller the pool since women refuse to be with men younger than them, whereas it’s everything goes for guys! I never thought about this until readers kept on mentioning that deadbeat women tend to go out with deadbeat men. There’s a fine balance between loving your man and smothering your man. But, if you put us on a leash, we’ll gnaw it off and go even more crazy once we’re free.It’s too late, and eventually, the relationship fades. Above all else, I believe that the reason why we settle for someone suboptimal is because we believe we aren’t deserving of more. You don’t deserve to be mistreated or taken advantage of ever! Life isn’t worth living if there’s nobody special to share it with.In retrospect, every woman who has gone out with a deadbeat loser realizes the case. You deserve to have someone love you back as much as you love them. I’d rather be a median waged person with a loved one than be a lonely billionaire in the long run.