Frustrated with dating life
If you are a peaceful person, you might find yourself constantly fighting. You feel like there is something seriously wrong with you. You might say that you aren’t comfortable staying overnight together–your partner does so anyway. He or she might get upset–especially if you try to break up with them or say that you are leaving–however, there is no underlying remorse for hurting you. He or she might say that they are sorry if they hurt you (hit you, scream at you, cheat on you…etc.) and promise that it will never happen again, but their apology is more manipulative than sincere. They might speak badly about a previous partner, claiming that their previous partner was crazy, or a bitch, or an asshole.
They will make you feel like you are the one that is going crazy instead of them. You might worry about what you wear and what you say and freak out if someone changes your plans or something unexpected happens that you will have to explain later. You’re not quite sure what will set them off, but you are afraid that something you do is going to make them lose their temper… You might think that the Bears are the best football team–your partner will convince you that you are stupid for thinking so because they suck. They might talk about cheating on an old partner, or be proud of their reputation.
No one really wants to date someone who reeks of drama, so stating that you want a drama-free woman is a bit redundant.
Much like the previous mistake, focus on the qualities that you do want in a partner instead.
One day, he is caring and loving and wonderful, and the next he is hateful and raging and mean. You are afraid to talk, or when you do talk you feel like you are never heard, your words are taken out of context, misunderstood, or blatantly ignored. In the beginning of a relationship they might seem like everything you ever wanted….usually this is because they are trying to act like everything you ever wanted. You have no support group and therefore your partner gains more power. He or she might be mean to people they think are “below them” or people who are defenseless, like babies or children.
The natural sunlight is so much more forgiving, and it’s always nice to get out and have some fresh air!There is no greater turn off for women than reading a message from a handsome man and it reads as an eighth grader wrote it.If you use things like, “ur”, “u”, “r”, “yea”, and the like in your profile or in any message you send a woman, your chances to appeal to her is going to drop significantly.Did you know that when you use the flash of your camera, it doesn’t help your photograph, but it actually can age you significantly?Instead of having to rely on the flash of your camera to illuminate a dark space (why would you even be taking a picture this way, to begin with?